Phantom Limbs are Real
Who would you put up to bat in the bottom of the ninth with bases loaded and down by a run? Would you deploy the player who is eager for the chance or the teammate who fears pressure? Expectations influence outcomes. If you think your project is likely to fail, the chances of failure increase. Likewise, if you expect success, your odds go up. Why is this true?
The Case for Flight When Crisis Occurs
When you consider the fight/flight/freeze options that our instincts select, remember that you don’t have a choice. When an emergency occurs, no one stops to consider their response options. Our next action (or inaction) is already wired into our neurology. You’ll either go toward, escape, or become a statue with all five senses consuming data. Look back on any crisis in your history and review your response if you are interested in learning how you are built.
The Painstaking Pleasure of Patience
The Tiffany Dome was originally crafted in 1897 when the current Chicago Cultural Center opened as the then Chicago Public Library. At 38 feet in diameter, the dome holds 62,000 pieces of glass inside 243 sections. A complete restoration was finished in 2008, allowing natural light to enter the space that had been blocked since the previous restoration in the 1930’s. Teams of all shapes and sizes can learn a few things from this wide-scale, multiphase project.
The Catch Phrases That Stick in Your Head
Like a musical hook, there are catch phrases people say that become earworms. They come from parents, mentors, teachers, and coaches. They are kernels of wisdom that simplify our complex world. They end up on posters, mission statements, and locker room bulletin boards. They shape our perspective whenever generic guidance is needed. Below are a few examples of ‘truisms’ that, upon further review, may not be true after all.
Here We Go Again
School districts and sports teams are examples of teams that evolve in seasons. Every year, they have a new blend of talent and a different flavor of customers. The offseason (summer for schools and winter for baseball teams) allows a chance to reboot culture and reenergize spirit. When the new season kicks off, most everyone is optimistic and, fortunately, mostly recovered from what went wrong last year. The chance to start fresh is real, yet the likelihood of regression to last year’s unhelpful themes is high. Here’s a roadmap for a true restart.
When Coping Skills Break Down
The clinical and organizational worlds merge when teams are under pressure. The lens through which we measure adaptability is both strategic and psychological. Sometimes we use the perspective of workplace wellness by focusing on culture. Other times we zero in on human coping skills and view the world through a behavioral health perspective.
Are You Unhappy at Work or in Life?
The older you are, the more likely it is that it’s both. There’s a window of opportunity in adulthood to shift direction. Once past that window, most of your energy serves to keep things the same, no matter how miserable. Pain gets normalized over time. It’s easier to endure a known discomfort than it is to risk the consequences of change.
Three Aspects of Loss
We are enjoying a historic period of leadership succession as the Baby Boomers gradually age into retirement. Professional service firms often employ mandatory retirement thresholds when 62-year-olds need to find new career paths regardless of whether they are ready for a transition. Many of these colleagues are just reaching their peaks. The consequence is loss and change. When this unfolds, we lose much more than the person and their talent.
What’s in Your Toolbox?
When was the last time a day turned out the way you expected? Never, right? There’s always a twist – sometimes in the form of adversity and, occasionally, a pleasant surprise. Whether your day has headed north or south, it’s all about adaptability. What happens next has many options.
Buying the Floor Model
Let’s play “Would you Rather.” Would you rather sit in a retreat workshop and listen to the speaker drone on about the day’s curriculum…or…would you rather get up, move around the room, and see the day’s lesson in action? Hearing that a colleague is hesitant to share innovative ideas for fear of criticism is a much different experience than seeing your teammate place themselves in a location in the circle that lacks trust. There you stand – waiting to launch into innovation – while your counterpart declines the invitation to join you in the area where creativity happens. Awkward and silent eye contact usually happens next. Now what?
Shallow or Deep?
Confession: I’ve learned to skim and absorb most of my reading material quickly. I’m willing to trade depth for speed. I can synthesize an academic journal article in fifteen minutes. Anything less rigorous takes me about two. Many social media platforms predict how long it will take to read their posts, with an eye toward expedience. No need to dive in if you don’t have 4.5 minutes to spare. This blog promises “60 seconds on the Team Clock.” I endeavor to put readers out of their misery in less than a minute. It’s a dupe. My blogs are usually two-minute reads.
Three Kinds of Change
The first change that draws most people’s attention is the unfair event that alters their stability. The second kind of change is the one that you, yourself, instigate. Others react to this one like you would respond to the first type. The third kind of change is constant and quiet. We age. Our teams evolve. Succession happens. The first and second examples consume tremendous amounts of leadership and H.R. energy. What many people don’t realize is that the third is an even more valuable expenditure of time and talent.