Some people seem happy all the time. Whether at work or play, they move from event to event with a bounce in their step and a twinkle in their eye. It’s not that adversity doesn’t come their way – it’s that they manage it with grace. Is this simply because they were born with a cheery disposition? Have they just faced less trauma than their peers who appear filled with consternation? Perhaps they’ve developed a better arsenal of coping skills. Or maybe they’ve discovered the elusive secret to a satisfying life.

Granted, it’s not over. The delta variant appears more contagious than the alpha. Businesses are rethinking the wisdom of requiring workers to return to the workspace. Many industries are requiring full vaccinations and/or repeated proof of negative COVID tests to stay employed. Those of us in client-facing roles are reinstituting masks and social distance. As we brace for another wave of adaptation, let’s take stock of what we’ve learned.

Below the tip of the iceberg, down beneath the surface where the secrets live, you’ll find the original source of today’s team dynamics. Although usually invisible in day-to-day interactions, the ways we relate to our teammates have their roots in the families where we were raised. The earliest connection with our parents, siblings, and extended families quietly shapes the way we treat others and expect to be treated. These powers are always in play.

As is true in nature, creative teams have seasons. There are times when things are quiet and dormant. Then the energy rises and feeds the team. Creativity spreads only to become something different. The team refuels and prepares for the next cycle. Winter then spring, summer then autumn. You could easily map the evolution of a creative team on a calendar. Let’s do that.

Some musicians lean on theory to guide the notes they play. Others rely on their imagination. Both make music. Often, it is a blend of these differences that creates the best bands. Someone holds the structure of the tune together while somebody else improvises. Neither teammate thrives without the counterbalance of the other. Music provides plenty of life lessons for teams.

‘Stay in your lane’ is one of those phrases that weakens teams while pretending to strengthen them. You do your job and let me do mine. This is how a collection of individuals collaborates. It is not teamwork. Strong teams know the ground rules for changing lanes.

Recognition as an employer-of-choice becomes a magnet for recruitment and retention. The nomination is the easy part. Ultimately, being named a top workplace comes down to the quality of the culture. The recognition opportunity becomes a snapshot of the organization through the lens of employees. While each competition is a little different, they all basically evaluate the same things. How does your workplace measure up?

Change management and innovation skills are the same. Change management deals with loss and recovery. Innovation deals with obsolescence and discovery. What’s the difference? In both phases of the team’s evolution, teammates need to let go of the old and say hello to the new. Whether mourning a loss or taking a risk, the core competencies are shared. Let’s dig deeper.

Locate your nearest clock, whether it’s on the wall or strapped to your wrist. Look at its features. Numbers from one to twelve form a circle and hands sweep around and around, passing the twelve twice daily for eternity. Now imagine that each number is a stage of your team’s development. Where on the clock is your team? Why? Let’s slow down and take a look at what is happening as your team evolves in these predictable cycles.

It is an understatement to say the pandemic has redefined the way teams come together. The unexpected outcome of this remote team’s collaboration was an original song that, once released, will move listeners physically, intellectually and emotionally. With none of the eight teammates sharing common space (from their respective homes in Chicago, Minneapolis and Nashville), the result somehow still surpassed the vision. Each and every contribution mattered. Here is how this 6-month creative project unfolded through the lens of each player. Please meet Kerry, Steve, Michael, Jeremy, Deevo, Travis, CJ and Jaymi.

As we have seen with sports teams and rock bands, assembling the best talent doesn’t guarantee success. In fact, blending two alpha-type egos can be a recipe for disaster. Dream teams are complementary. They are balanced. They rely on the power of difference.

The biggest enemy of change is science. Homeostasis is the scientific explanation of why living things devote their energy to staying the same. When external threats occur, the ecosystem organizes around protecting the status quo. This is why it is so hard to establish new habits. This is why it is so difficult to change a workplace culture.