Strong partnerships are an antidote for unhealthy workplace culture, at least temporarily. The opportunity to commiserate enables teammates to let off some steam. Confidential exchanges allow for strategic problem-solving of shared burdens. And simply, having a friend provides the anticipation of kindness when the demands of the job make production a higher priority than connection.
Often described as a ‘work-spouse,’ actual spouses understand their partner’s bond with their mate’s most trusted coworker. That special individual gives something to your loved one that you can’t provide. Your home life is enhanced because of their connection. You appreciate that your partner has that resource and don’t see it as a competition.
So, who is your person when you’re at work? How did the two of you come to this place of unconditional support? What made the relationship safe enough to be considered ‘trusted?’ Are you taking this connection for granted or have you communicated your appreciation to this vital partner? It matters.
